Ladies, if you want a great relationship with your partner, better sex life, a happier lover and spouse overall,
Here is a question I invite you to ask yourself:
Are you fully playing your “role” in the relationship?
Here’s what I mean.
Ladies, are you being more of the Mother than a lover?
Are you over caring, over Nurturing?
Are you hyper type A Alpha at work AND at home?
Are you doing everything at work AND home, including the finances, the meals, the kids, the laundry and the dishes?
Are you “swallowing” your emotions and what you feel, ending up feeling resentful of things…
but being unable to express it?
Here’s the problem with what you are experiencing above – You might be not playing out or being in the appropriate “role” in your relationship.
E.g being the “Mother” instead of being a lover, or partner.
Being the “Little Boy” instead of a strong lover or partner.
There are plentiful background reasons “why” this happened, which I won’t address here in this post
there is ONE fundamental Root cause of this.
This stems back to the relationship you have with the very first two people you meet in your life: …
Any unaddressed or unresolved issues with these two people tend to play out not just in your love life but in other areas of your life, including your sense of self, confidence and self-esteem, your career, money, your relationships at work, and even your sense of direction in life.
Any “Imbalance” in the dynamic between you and your parents, can show up in your relationship with your lover, including friends, bosses, and co-workers.
Depending on how self-aware the partners are, the problem could be ongoing for many years before the breakdown happens.
The “Symptoms” of this problem?
Chronic exhaustion, fatigue, other possible physical illness, just feeling “stressed” overall, relationship breakdown due to building. resentment and frustration, and yes, unsatisfactory sex life.
If this resonates, and this is something you might want to look at, I address these issues in my 6 – 12 weeks flagship program.
Feel free to schedule a free call to see if this program is a good fit for you.